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You are Spark. Ranks are earned. They limit how many new people a new account can reach. They do not charge you to talk.
- Spark · youEmail and phone. Blurred photos. Free replies. A few new chats a day.
- EmberReal use. Clearer photos. More new chats. Not for sale.
- FlameSelfie pose plus vouches. Full search. Who viewed you.
- BeaconCan vouch for other people. A search boost. Still cannot buy it.
- PhoenixLong-term members. Optional ID. Ambassador tools.
- VIPTop of the ladder. Phoenix, time, and a clean record. Never for sale.
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- 3New chats/day
- 0Matches
Discreet icon and the app PIN are in Dating & Privacy after you log in. Avatar: Onboarding.
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Same set as Members. Distance is area-level only.
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Free · privacy-first · herpes dating
An HSV dating site that's actually free.
People without HSV can join too.
Match and message at $0. Trust is a rank you earn — Spark, Ember, Flame, Beacon, Phoenix, VIP — not a $30 paywall.
- Free to join, free to message, free to match.
- No fake “someone likes you” bait. A heart on a card is a real member.
- Verified by people, not by paperwork.
What to tap
- Swipe asks you to join first. Then you can like and message.
- Open the chat. “Hey” is pushed back. Block and Report sit on the thread.
- You: your public card. Discreet icon and the PIN screen are in Dating & Privacy.
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- Empty-opener nudge, block, report
- Discreet icon and PIN preview
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Your AI avatar represents you until you decide to share photos. Free, private, beautiful.
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From Spark to Phoenix — verification, vouches, and good conduct move you up. Never your wallet.
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What's happening
Public updates from members, pulled from the activity already on the site.
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